If Shatzy were married....

[TastinGood]

<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by SHATOUSHKA:
hypothetically, right?

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Of course.

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[soulfilms]

bringing this back,

if shatsy were married, she would be the one to dominate the relationship


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[Alex]

But would the man not be happy that it was this way?

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[SHATOUSHKA]

they say that he whom sleeps on the right side of the bed dominates the relationship.
i assume that such a situation would occur subliminally.
they also say that the one whom dominates a relationship is the one whom is less interested.

go figure.

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[zelazny]

so to have a balanced relationship one only has to make sure none is sleeping on the right? I bet there are some nice solutions to that problem

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[soulfilms]

the one who dominates is the one who's less interested?

............INTERESTING

I can see how that would work hypothetically as if you're casually nonchalant as to the future of your relationship, you actually wield more power in an indirect way because you're not as desperate as your partner for it to work and so your partner is willing to accomodate you on various issues.


....................MAYBE

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[SHATOUSHKA]

shatoushka's rule of thumb for those seeking to maintain a balance of dominance in a given relationship:
invest in bunk beds

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[Alex]

Who's on top?

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[soulfilms]

they take turns.

one week, shats,

next week, her partner,

third week, their dog/cat/pet,

...don't want to disrupt the power politics of the household thereby both party recognise the need of having the pet included in this senario.

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[SHATOUSHKA]

OOOOOOH! now it makes sense....

you guys were including me into the bunk bed scenario...

i was just thinking of the man and the pets.

good thing we cleared that up!

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